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Budget basics

Build a budget from the person's real income and spending. Lives in a spreadsheet with a monthly review that keeps it honest. Use when they say "help me budget", "where does my money go", or "I'm always broke by the 20th".

Use this skill. Nothing to install.

Open in ChatGPT Open in Claude prefilled and ready; just hit send
for Gemini, Copilot, or Cursor: paste it, then say "use the budget basics skill"

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This is how a session goes, including the part where the real numbers come out. Click through it.

(pastes the skill) i'm broke by the 20th every month and i genuinely don't know where it goes
Then job one is just seeing it. Open a Google Sheet, then pull up your bank or payment app history for last month. You read the transactions out to me; I never access your account.
this is embarrassing. my income is like $180 a month from my saturday job
$180 budgets the same way $1,800 does, and small numbers make the leaks easier to spot. Income lines first: actual amounts on actual dates, even the irregular stuff. What really arrived last month, and not the hoped-for average?
$45 a week from the job, and my aunt sent $20 for my birthday. spending is... food with friends mostly? and cash stuff i honestly can't remember
"Food with friends" is a perfect category name, because it's your words and you'll keep using it. The cash you can't remember is a finding in itself: we'll estimate it honestly and give it its own line. Then we total both sides and look at the gap without softening it.
and then you tell me to cut everything fun, right
No. Next month gets planned from last month's actuals. If food with friends was really $60, we plan $45 and mean it; planning $10 is a budget that dies on the first Friday. Fixed obligations get filled in first, then saving if you have a goal, then everything else splits the rest, plus a 10% "no idea" buffer because month one always has surprises. Ready to open the sheet?

Scripted example of a real session.

Income too small to be worth budgeting?

Small and irregular is the normal case this skill is built for: allowance, a part-time job, gig money. The sheet is built on what actually arrived last month, in your own category names, with formulas doing the totals. The first honest look at the gap between money in and money out is the point of the exercise, and it works at any scale. Nobody sees your account but you: you read your own history out loud, and the agent never accesses anything.

What you end up with

A working spreadsheet: last month's real numbers, next month planned in three columns per category, formulas live, and the monthly review already on your calendar.

Example
DECEMBER BUDGET
Planned from November actuals  ·  review: Sat Jan 3, 15 min
INCOME
Saturday job  ·  planned $180  ·  actual —  ·  diff —
Odd jobs  ·  planned $20  ·  actual —  ·  diff —
FIXED FIRST 1
Phone bill  ·  planned $25  ·  actual —  ·  diff —
Bus pass  ·  planned $22  ·  actual —  ·  diff —
SAVING
Car fund  ·  planned $40  ·  actual —  ·  diff —
EVERYTHING ELSE 2
Food with friends  ·  planned $45  ·  actual —  ·  diff —   (Nov actual: $61)
Games & apps  ·  planned $15  ·  actual —  ·  diff —   (Nov actual: $18)
Cash, misc  ·  planned $13  ·  actual —  ·  diff —   (Nov estimate: $20)
"No idea" buffer  ·  planned $20 3
MONEY LEFT IF PLAN HOLDS: $20 4
  1. Fixed obligations first. Anything owed gets a line before anything optional. Then saving if there is a goal (the save-for-a-goal skill sets that number properly), then everything else splits what remains.
  2. Planned from actuals. November's food-with-friends really was $61, so December plans $45, a cut that can survive a Friday. The actuals column starts empty and gets filled weekly from your own account history.
  3. The buffer is the system working. Around 10% for surprises. An overrun that lands in the buffer is not a failure; it is what the buffer is for.
  4. The bottom line is big on purpose. Formulas keep it current with zero arithmetic effort, and the review changes exactly one number per month. Budgets die of ten simultaneous resolutions.

Questions people actually ask

Do you look at my bank account?

No. You pull up your own bank or payment app history and read the transactions out; the agent never accesses the account, and account or bank questions go to your bank and, for minors, a parent or guardian.

My income is different every month. Does this still work?

Yes; irregular is treated as the normal case. You list what really arrived, with actual amounts and dates, instead of a hoped-for average. Planning then works from last month's real numbers, and three months of accumulated history beats any estimate.

What if I blow the plan in week one?

Two things catch it. The "no idea" buffer absorbs month-one surprises by design, and the plan itself is built from actuals rather than aspirations, so it is survivable in the first place. If a number still turns out to be fantasy, the monthly review renames it: one change per month, chosen at the fifteen-minute check-in.

Do I need a budgeting app?

No. A spreadsheet is the whole tool; Google Sheets is free and fine. Formulas do the totals, the sheet gets copied forward each month so history accumulates, and your category names stay in your own words.

Is this financial advice?

No, and the skill says so: it is not a financial advisor, it is help seeing your own numbers. Nothing here involves investing or touching accounts. Where to keep money and anything bank-related goes to your bank and, for minors, a parent or guardian.

Where to go from here

Sheet running? These build straight on it:

Save for a goal Spreadsheet basics Understand your paycheck

Like tracking things? Build a tracker that isn't about money:

Bill split calculator Club dues tracker Personal tracker
Curious? Read the full skill — the exact instructions your agent gets
---
name: budget-basics
category: money
description: Build a budget from the person's real income and spending. Lives in a spreadsheet with a monthly review that keeps it honest. Use when they say "help me budget", "where does my money go", or "I'm always broke by the 20th".
---

# budget-basics

Build a first budget with someone whose money is probably
small and irregular — allowance, a part-time job, gig income. The
budget is a spreadsheet built on their actual numbers, not a template
of imaginary categories. You are not a financial advisor; you are
helping them see their own numbers. Account or bank questions go to
their bank or, for minors, a parent or guardian.

## Real numbers in

Skip theory. Open a spreadsheet (Google Sheets is fine and free) and
get the last full month on the screen:

- Income: every source, actual amounts, actual dates. Irregular is
  normal; list what really arrived, not the hoped-for average.
- Spending: have them pull up their bank or payment app history
  themselves and read totals or relevant transactions out — you never access
  the account. Do not ask for account numbers, login details, full statements,
  or identifying transaction exports. Cash spending gets estimated honestly; if they cannot
  remember it, that itself is a finding.
- Categorize as you go, using their words: "food with friends" is a
  better category name than "discretionary dining" because they will
  keep using it.

Total both sides. The first honest reaction to the gap — surplus or
deficit — is the point of the whole exercise. Do not soften it.

## The budget sheet

Now build next month, three columns per category: planned, actual,
difference. Rules that keep it survivable:

- Fixed obligations first (phone bill, bus pass, anything they owe),
  then saving if they have a goal, then everything else splits what
  is left. If they have a goal in mind, the save-for-a-goal skill
  sets the number properly.
- Plan from last month's actuals, not aspirations. Make any reduction small
  enough that the person believes they can follow it for the month.
- Add a buffer based on how irregular their recent expenses have been rather
  than a universal percentage. An overrun that lands in the buffer is the system
  working.
- Actuals column starts empty and gets filled during the month —
  weekly is enough, from their own account history.

Formulas do the totals so the sheet stays current with zero
arithmetic effort. Make the bottom line — money left — big and
impossible to miss.

## The monthly loop

A budget that is never reviewed is a wish. Set the loop up before
the session ends:

- A recurring calendar reminder, first weekend of each month,
  fifteen minutes.
- The review is three questions: what did each category actually do,
  which planned number was fantasy, what one number changes next
  month. Prefer one change per month so the review can show what worked.
- Copy the sheet forward each month so history accumulates. Three
  months of real data is worth more than any advice.

## Done

- A working budget spreadsheet with last month's real
  numbers, next month planned, formulas live, and the review reminder
  already on their calendar
- The totals reconcile, the buffer has a stated basis, and no credentials or
  account identifiers were copied into the sheet or chat